Keeping My Head On

My anxiety is through the roof.

I’ve had what seemed like wonderful job opportunities come up in the last month, and one by one they aren’t working out.

I talked to Missy and Melissa at church a few weeks ago and let them know that we are really struggling financially, and that I would most likely have to get a typical job in order for us to make ends meet. That would mean that I would probably have to take a step back from the serving that I have been doing in the Children’s Ministry at church, which completely sucks because that is where I truly feel called. They suggested that I talk to our associate pastor and see if there was any way the church could hire me at least part time. I did speak to her, but there is no money in the budget, so that’s a no-go.

I’ve also been occasionally babysitting for a family (who originally wanted me several hours a week until summer, and then wanted me practically every day, but then they were incommunicado for WEEKS before finally booking me for a few hours every few weeks) and was supposed to be getting a schedule for the summer sometime soon. Unfortunately, today the mom contacted me and they aren’t going to need me at all this summer. Instead, they are going to coordinate childcare through someone in Cincinnati, where the mom’s business is located. Which totally sucks for me. Not only financially, but I was really bonding with the kids.

So now I’m waiting to hear from two more jobs. One is very occasional contract work, but I think I have a pretty good shot at it, plus it looks like tons of fun. The other job is full time (but probably won’t start until August) designing fun and educational programs for kids, which sounds amazing, but I’m nervous about it because it’s a brand new situation for me with people I don’t know. Sheila pointed out, though, that being new is a good thing because you can ask people for help, which makes me feel a little better, but I’m still nervous. Plus, I don’t even know if I’ll get the job. And I really need the job. And I want the job too. They said I should hear by the end of the month, so here’s hoping.

I know that God is closing doors that need to be closed, and that He will open windows that are supposed to be open, but it is very hard to wait and be patient. And to trust in His plan. I just need to keep my head on, and it will be okay.


So Many Things To Write About

I’ve got so many things going on lately, and so many things I want to write about, but I just don’t have the time. So I don’t forget anything I am going to write this little post with a list of things that are happening and that I want to write about

  1. I went to a Group VBS FunShop on Saturday, and it was freaking awesome, and it may lead to a part-time job for me
  2. I had a bit of a panic attack about money and realized a few things about myself
  3. Lots of thoughts about different scenarios with jobs, trying to figure out what I would like to do vs how much should money factor in
  4. I shared my story with a group of women
  5. If the hats that Hermione left around Gryffindor tower set the house elves free, then how do house elves do laundry?

Plus there are tons of past things that I need to write about such as

  1. Rob’s migraine story, plus all the emotions behind it. Especially half expecting something bad because of everything we’ve been through
  2. The loss of a childhood friend
  3. Serving others vs. being subservient
  4. Realizing that my past has caused me to want to help kids realize what they are capable of

So, hopefully I will get to all those writings before long!